A lady told me that her emotions occurred spontaneously, and sometimes two or three at the same time when her daughter passed away.
Although there are stages that are common to the process of grief, they do not occur in a predictable order. Your emotions will be random, sometimes overwhelming, and completely unique.
Whatever your emotions lead you to feel, it's okay to feel how you're feeling, I think there are several emotions people are going to go through that are beyond their control.
Feelings of regrets and blames of what you shouldn't have done, or would have done better is the one that keeps one in grief for so long. I was caught up in this for more than 7 years. I was drying up, and walking around like a lifeless human. Very unconscious of my surroundings, and hoping for some Angels to lift me out of this world miraculously.
I felt so ashamed of myself, having been around church serving, praying and teaching. One day, I felt the Holy Spirit telling me that I decided to take the place of God in the life of my husband. I determined what should have happened to him, how and when.
That was a turning point for me. I knew I had to let the hooks of guilt off myself, difficult though.
Although you may feel overwhelmed and out of control, you can still have the deep inner peace that comes from God alone.
In my dealings with people, I have come to the conclusion that what we know is nothing compared with what we do not know.
Some people clearly sense the peace of God during times of adversity, but others wonder why they cannot feel it. Be assured that His peace is always available to you. Peace comes through a sincere belief in God's presence and in His promises; it is not dependent on our feelings or sensations. Believe in His promises and rest in His peace today.
2 Thessalonians 3:16
"Now may the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times and in every way. The Lord be with all of you".
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